How To Use Butt Plugs: The Ultimate Guide

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Butt plugs are a fun and varied kind of toy for those with an interest or fondness for anal play.

There are many kinds of butt plugs, and many ways to use them, allowing a wide range of people to enjoy them for different reasons.

Decorated butt plugs can be used during sex to add extra stimulation, or by yourself for masturbation or even a hidden bit of pleasure for a night out on the town.

Butt plugs with tails can be used during sex for pulling, or during regular activities, worn about the house to help stay in pet space.

There are also vibrating butt plugs, for those who enjoy more exciting anal stimulation.

Perhaps you are interesting in exploring anal play and want to know the ins and outs of what you will need and how to proceed.
If so, then you’ve come to the right place.

Types of Lube


Let’s start with the basics!


There are three main types of lubricants out there for you to pick from, oil-based, silicone-based, and water-based.

Each of these three types has its upsides, but also their own drawbacks.

Oil Lubricants

Oil-based lubricants are great for extended use of toys like butt plugs or any other kind of insertable.

They last a long time without drying out, and are smoother, meaning it will feel easier moving a toy in or out.

However, they come with the drawback of being incompatible with latex, whether it be latex clothing or a latex condom.

An oil-based lubricant will eat through the latex, and the resulting mix can be dangerous.

It’s safest to use oil-based lubricants on metal, glass, or silicone toys and butt plugs.

Oil-based lubricants are also harder to clean up, as they don’t dissolve in water, so make sure you have plenty of time set aside for cleaning.

Never use petroleum jelly.

The best kinds are gentle, natural oils, like jojoba oil, for example.

Silicone Lubricants

Silicone-based lubricants are similar to oil-based ones in that they stay wet a long time, and don’t dry out, they also share that same smooth feeling.

They stay wetter for longer and so are really good for prolonged play, especially of the anal variety.

Silicone lubes are also hypoallergenic, meaning they are unlikely to cause an allergic reaction or irritate sensitive skin.

Unlike oil-based lubes, they can be used with latex toys or condoms safely, but they will dissolve other silicone products.

Using silicone lube with a silicone toy or plug will be very dangerous to the user’s health.

The silicon can be absorbed into the body, and cause serious harm.

Silicone-based lubricants are also easier to clean up afterwards, making it easier to safely clean and maintain your toys.

Water Lubricants

Water-based lubricants are super versatile, being safe to use with any toy, however they can dry out fast, producing a sticky residue.

They can be used with plugs and other toys safely.

You just have to make sure to regularly re-apply the lube, and to be mindful if it begins drying.

They are also the easiest kind of lube to clean up, being soluble in water.

However this also means they are not the best choice for any anal play in water.

Some of the better lubricants on the market that you might want to look into are:

Water-based lubricants

Sliquid Natural Lube (Amazon)
Aloe Cadabra (Amazon)
Pink Water (Amazon)

Oil-based lubricants

Jojoba oil
Coconut oil
Olive oil

Silicone-based lubricants

Uberlube (Amazon)
Wet Platinum (Amazon)
Swiss Navy Silicone Lubricant (Amazon)
Pjur Original (Amazon)
Gun Oil (Amazon)

Remember to stay clear of lubes containing propylene glycol, parabens, glycerin, L-Argenine and petroleum.


For a beginner, the different materials may seem a bit confusing, but they are very simple.

Silicone plugs will be warmer and softer than the alternative of glass or metal.

If you’re worried about using a plug for your first time, a silicone plug will be a safe choice.

It is also better for anal training and prolonged use with less discomfort.

Softer plugs will give a very different feeling from harder plugs.

You may wish to buy a second plug made from glass or metal, once you are comfortable with your silicone plug.

Silicone plugs do come with the drawback of not being safe for use with silicone lubricants, though.

You should use only water- or oil-based lubricants with a silicone plug.

Metal and glass plugs are safe for use with any lubricant, so if you have lube left over from your silicone plug, you can use it safely with a glass or metal plug if you decide to buy one.

Glass plugs are made of pyrex – a heat, crack and break resistant glass that is body-safe and fun to use.

Definitely a harder material than silicone, it should be used once you are comfortable with anal insertables.

Both pyrex and steel plugs are smooth to use and so easier for anal play that involves any sort in and out movement.

They can be cold at first but will quickly warm to the body’s temperature for better comfort.

While you can wear or use glass or steel plugs for long periods of time, they may cause discomfort if you are not used to them.

Take it slow.

The best way to work yourself to this point is through anal training.

Anal Training

Depending on the size of your butt plug, you may want to stretch yourself out first.

A smaller training plug may only require a few minutes of stretching with fingers, but a large plug may need you to swap between smaller plugs.

Using your fingers, you’ll want to stretch your anus slightly and slowly, don’t rush yourself, and relax your stomach.

There are a number of anal training kits you can find at a variety of sex toy and kink shops online.

Once you feel confident you can insert your plug, you’ll want to follow the steps listed in the next section that explores the nitty gritty on how to safely insert your plug.

How to Insert A Butt Plug

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You’ve finally made it! You’ve purchased your first plug, you also have some great lube.

Now it is time for the test drive.

Inserting a butt plug may seem daunting, but the most important part is relaxation.

You’ll want to pick the right position for insertion which depends on a variety of factors.

If your plug has a suction cup or flat base, you can secure it to the floor, the bathtub basin, etc.

, and you will want to slowly lower yourself onto it.

If you can secure it to a wall you can also push back to insert.

Doing so in the doggy position is easiest.

For decorated plugs or those with tails, laying on your side is easiest and most efficient.

It keeps your muscles relaxed and does not cause discomfort in trying to reach.

Whichever position you pick, you must be able to relax yourself.

If staying on your knees is causing you to tense your stomach and pelvic floor muscles, you will have a harder time with the insertion.

Once you have chosen a position that works for you, start pressing the plug into your butt.

The first layer, the one you can see, will be easy enough to push the toy into.

The sphincter muscles however, will prove stubborn at first.

They usually begin around 4cm into the anus, and will clench without you meaning to sometimes.

The tip to passing the sphincter is to relax your stomach, and move slow.

Trying to cram it in will only hurt you, and could lead to a serious injury.

You need to move slowly and let your sphincter relax each time you make some progress.

Once you have made some progress, continue the same way until the largest section of the plug begins to enter.

Your sphincter may clench up, but you need to remain persistent.

Continue to push steadily, and always remember to breathe in a measured fashion.

When you pass the bulbous shape of the plug, you will find it tapers down.

That is where your anus will close around the plug.

The base is to remain outside of the body so that you will be able to remove it without issue.

When you are ready to remove the plug, you will want to grab the stem of the plug, and start gently pulling.

The problem here is that unlike when you insert the plug, the widest part needs to come out first.

Using force here may hurt you, and prove ineffective in removing the plug.

You’ll want to get into a position like before, where you can relax, and begin pulling the toy, while pushing with your stomach, as though you are having a bowel movement.

It may feel uncomfortable at first, but repeating a similar method from before, to remove it slowly and steadily, you will be able to remove the plug.
For longer plugs with graduated bulbs, take each one slowly.

Never ever attempt to forcefully pull the plug from your body as this may cause perforation of the walls or anal prolapse.


There are many types of plugs for you to test out and a number of ways to get started.

The best way is to start small and soft and work your way up in size and to harder materials.

Always use the right lube to assist in insertion and removal of the plug.

When inserting, slow and steady wins the race.

Relax as best you can and forge forward.

Anal play can be great as an addition to other types of play or fun on its own.

Enjoy experimenting to find the most fulfilling way to add anal play to your sex life!

How To Anal Douche

If you don’t want to deal with frustrating fecal mistakes during anal sex, you can give yourself an enema beforehand, which means cleansing the rectum with water.

It is also known as rectal douching, and its purpose is to clean the rectum.

This is typically called rectal douching, or anal douching.

There are a few douching methods you can try;

Water eliminates all the dirt and discharges and ensures the intestines connecting to it are clean and okay.

If the lining of the mucosa is not in the tears of the intestines or scratches, the anal wash increases the risk of infection with HIV or STIs.

Shower Hose


Anal douching is the most common way to make sure you will not face shit while having anal sex.

There are different ways to do this.

The quickest way to rinse the rectum is with a shower hose.

Remove the shower head and clean the hose tip carefully before using it.

The most hygienic solution is to screw the piece (nozzle) end on the hose.

This method the hose of the shower should never be touch the anus.

General tips for anal washing

  1. Before you start, first sit on the toilet and take the shit.
  2. Wash your hands and use clean equipment.
  3. The lukewarm water will make washing easier and happier.
  4. To prevent anal and rectal damage, make sure that the water pressure is not too high.
  5. Do not rinse the rectum with soap or soap.
  6. Apply lubrication in the anus and on the nozzle tip.
  7. Relax the sphincter and push the nozzle gently within a few centimeters.
  8. Each time you rinse it, let the water flow slowly until the rectum feels bored.

Then take a sit in a place like a bathtub or the rim of the toilet and feel relaxed as this will be paramount in allowing the water to move down with all the unnecessary shit it holds.

You should do this process again up to the point that the water appears to be clear and crystal clean.

Shower nozzles, hand pumps, and enema

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You may also purchase nozzles either online or at sex shops or leather shops.

They also sell hand pumps, which you may fill with sterile solution.

These are easy to bring with you when traveling.

Pre-packaged enemas that you may buy at pharmacies can also be helpful in traveling.

Make sure you do not buy one with a lotion containing a laxative.

Risks involved in anal douching

Anal douching is not completely free of risk.

Water removes not only, but also part of the intestinal flora.

The intestinal flora consists of all the good bacteria that you need to digest food and maintain the intestinal immune system.

Washing can often (seriously) disable intestinal flora.

Similarly, washing dangerously, for example with excessive water pressure, can destroy the intestinal wall.

Using a large amount of water or a high jet of water can result in small ruptures of the mucous membrane in the intestine.

These small tears will make it easy for HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases such as CNog to enter.

In this way, unsafe anal washing can increase the chances of sexually transmitted diseases.

Bowel weakness makes the bowel more susceptible to other pathogens.

So it’s always better to use a condom or glove with a lot of lubrication. And vaccinate yourself against hepatitis B.

Giving yourself a shock, in this case, will irritate the bowel more and end up moving sperm and any pathogens inside.

Clean your toys.

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You should ensure the toys and enema bulb are cleaned well with good water and also soap in different durations.

If someone else wants to rinse the rectum with the same device, be sure to clean it well.

This will prevent the transmission of sexually transmitted diseases such as HIV and hepatitis C.

The best way to cleanse your equipment is with 1:10 whitening solution (one part of the bleach to ten parts of the water).

Allow the dishes to sit in the solution for at least one minute and then rinse thoroughly with water.

The alternative is to boil the equipment: place it in a large pan with plenty of water and let it boil for at least three to five minutes.

You could also use a shower set. A shower set is a set of tools that allow you to connect it to a bathtub or shower.

Some can be attached permanently, and others can be attached (when you need it). The good thing about this type of shower is that you get a steady flow rate.

There is no possibility of what I call “suck” (I’ll explain later) – and you’ll get a deeper cleanser because you’re experiencing more stress. Of course, this means you need to be very careful when using something like this – which is why I recommend using a product that allows you to adjust the pressure.

This type of shower can be worth thinking about if you are someone who has a deeper and more courageous enema regularly (even large bags or industrial teeth).

With a little exercise, they can be easy to use, but cleaning them can be a little pain since they are usually in smaller parts, and trying to clean the hoses can be a nuisance – but it will make you feel cleaner and confident – for this.



I hope you now understand the benefits–and the risks–of anal douching. Now you’re ready to douche away safely and securely. Enjoy your anal adventures!

How to Have a Prostate Orgasm


When most of us received instructions about sex, we understood an basic rule: men’s sexual satisfaction is transmitted through their external genitalia, while women achieve it on the inside.

But it would seem that men fell short with that classification, in light of the fact that there is another focus of intense delight within the male body.

The orgasms aided by the prostate (“P-Spot Orgasms”) are not generally accepted as much as those achieved through the penis.

But there is an powerful network of people who have found uncontrollably exceptional and long orgasms that can transmit throughout the body.

There is a good reason, considering everything, why the sex toy industry is flooded with the prostate stimulators,  massagers and accessories. “Progasms”, as they are called from time to time, can be a very special and sensual experience.

In fact, it is commonly understood that women feel significantly more sensation at orgasm than men. Prostate orgasms can help bridge the gap.

For some, this domain remains largely unexplored and uncomfortable.

So, here are five steps to the prostate orgasm of your dreams.

Fives Steps To P-Spot Pleasure:

Prepare for it

When the butt’s in the game, it is essential to avoid potential risk.

Things tend to get confused when this place of the body is included, but a simple routine can allow the sex participants to avoid.

For the man who hopes to achieve an orgasm aided by the prostate, a douche is probably an smart thought.

The procedure cleans out your entire body’s litter so you do not have to worry about it becoming sex.

It would not be bad to follow up with a shower.

The perpetrator must also take some well-mannered measures to increase the understanding of his accomplice.

The skin around the back is delicate and can tear effectively, so cutting the nails and cleaning the hands is an unquestionable requirement.

Couples may need to prepare themselves with paper towels and elastic gloves.

Lube Up, Warm Up

It’s not like a vagina–the butt isn’t self-lubricating.

So a lot of lubricant is welcome, and you should be constantly adding more throughout your rendezvous.

For people who are not familiar with anal penetration, a little warm-up can go a long way.

Set up your partner for penetration by touching your buttocks, stroking the stick and rubbing the back (or, in other words, the nerve endings ofyour erogenous zones).

Other popular and attractive areas are areolas and ears, but each person is different.

The best method to understand where you should touch your partner is by asking.

Have a generous massage

Finding the prostate can be difficult for people who have not done it before.

But it is not so difficult.

Since the prostate swells when it is excited, it is better to start the procedure after it is stimulated effectively.

The prostate can be found remotely through the perineum (the beautiful stone territory placed between the scrotum and the back).

It is possible that his partner achieves orgasm by essentially applying weight to the territory and directing a liberal back massage.

But for individuals who are inclined towards a more direct pathway, penetration is the best approach.

The prostate is located around two inches below the rectum towards the scrotum.

After inserting a finger (or two if you feel good) you should feel a ball the size of a chestnut.

Moving the finger(s) in a “come here” movement towards your navel can stimulate the prostate to the point of orgasm.

Use your muscles

We all know Kegels, but what many people do not understand is that both sexes can benefit from this type of activity.

The muscles of Pubococcygeus (PC) not only allow men to maintain control over urine and blood flow to the penis, but can also help them in orgasm.

Like the female G-spot orgasm, the orgasms aided by the prostate (P-spot orgasms) are achieved and sustained through a sequence of muscle contractions, so strengthening this territory is vital.

There are a number of different ways in which you can do this, but among the best is to tighten your pelvic floor muscles as if holding in a fart.

Keep toys in mind!

Certainly, it is incredible to have an partner that can really help.

But there is a whole market for people who do it alone.

The prostate massager Aneros Progasm is, in every way, the handling of the way with regard to the orgasms aided by the prostate.

The Aneros is a generally small gadget (3.5 inches) with wavy molding that customers can, without much stretching, get into their ass.

It comes equipped with a holder for easy removal and a “tab” that sits against the perineum for extra joy.

By holding their buttocks, clients rotate the device forward, ensuring contact with the prostate.

At the point where the muscles relax, the device returns to its stationary position.

This caressing movement is what strengthens the “p-point” and is considered, without hands, twisted orgasms.

Also, you do not need to stop there.

A considerable amount of people who also appreciate using a cock ring in the middle of their prostate pleasure.

Empower it

When you locate the prostate, begin to make a “come here” movement with the tip of your finger, caressing the highest point of the prostate.

As you did with the perineum, gradually increase your weight and continue to check in with yourself about what feels good.

Once you have discovered the weight that works, experiment with two or three different strokes and see what you enjoy the most.

You can try to use your fingers in circles, keep your finger still and apply weight, or move your finger in and out.

The ecstasy created by the prostate has a lot of health advantages besides a surprising and novel orgasm.

The process allows you to expel fluid from the prostate, and increase blood flow to the pelvic area.

This can help decrease inflammation and protect against cancer.

Apart from the strength, the most refreshing part of the orgasms helped by the prostate should be that they take into account numerous orgasms (no more female jealousy!).

With orgasms aided by the prostate, many men will find a “dry orgasm”, which means they will not be discharged and can go for hours.


Penetrative orgasm is something that appeals both homosexual and heterosexual men.

Unfortunately, homophobia and old-school sex education seem to have slowed the uptake of popular acceptance of this sensitive subject.

The prostate-assisted orgasm procedure allows men to venture out of established sex roles, hand over the sexual reins to a different driver, and experience another means of control.

As the dominatrix expert Margaret Corvid thinks, “it is an open door for men to appreciate the receptivity and helplessness of being infiltrated, or, in other words, a part of sexuality that is largely beyond the reach of men in the standard sexual culture. “

How To Prep For Anal

The muscles and nerve endings around the anus are highly sensitive, and  feel great when stimulated by a finger, sex toy, tongue, or penis.

At first, it is recommended that you should start anal sex without a partner at first to ensure you are comfortable doing it.

For a man, butt plugs feel good against the prostate.

Many men have orgasms just from pressure on the prostate (the P-spot).

For a woman, they can easily stimulate their G-spot indirectly through anal play.

Difficulty: Average 

What you need: Butt plug/small dildo/anal beads; a lubricant, a vibrator (optional) 

Time Required: About an hour to achieve complete ejaculation.


Prep For Anal

Select a toy

Butt plugs are a good beginner item. But one may also use anal beads or a slim jelly dildo as a beginner item.

Make sure to have lots of lubricant handy (preferably a thicker water-based lube).

Trim your fingernails. You should ensure that your state of hygiene is totally on edge.

One should take a bath initially and then try it out.

Next, do what you do to get yourself in the mood

There are a variety of ways to accomplish that arousal, to get yourself in the mood to masturbate.

Find a position where you’re most comfortable, and where your butt is still accessible. You need to put some lubricants on the fingers and smear around the anus area.

Then you will be required to slowly do some massage. Then concentrate on relaxing the butt muscles. Now, gently insert a lubed fingertip.

You may sense some restriction.

If so, massage the anus and try pushing out as you’re pushing your finger in.

Once you’re in, stop for a moment, and let yourself adjust to this new sensation.

Then you will start the exploration.

Now, let’s try it with a butt plug

Remove your finger, add some lubricant to the plug and insert it slowly.

Again, if you’re having some trouble, massage the anus, breathe deeply and try again.

Do not try to insert the entire toy right away.

Insert a little at a time to allow your butt to adjust to an incoming rather than an outgoing object.

Once inside, continue inserting as long as it feels good

Continue applying lubricant as the slipperier, the better. There is a variety of plug sizes and will fit inside the anus.

You can leave the toy in place and explore other areas, or, stay where you are and try out different variations in movement.

You can turn it, push it, tap on it, if it’s a vibrator, you can increase or decrease the speeds.

Make sure that if the plug you’re using is curved, that the curve points towards your stomach.

This provides added sensation to either the prostate, the p-spot or the g-spot. One may be willing to try to orgasm with the plug in place.

It’s recommended that you remove the plug fairly soon after you come, but do it so gently.

Quick Tips:

• If you find that you like movement in and out of your anus, try a slim dildo. The jelly dildo will work to start with.
• Use a dildo with a long handle for better grip.
• Plugs or dildos with suction cups are a great hands-free way to penetrate yourself. Stick them to just about any surface and “ta-da” no hands!!
• Also recommended are Anal Beads as the butt muscles contract around each bead as they are inserted.
• Silicone plugs and dildos are easily cleaned with soap and water, and those made of rubber and cyberskin can be used with condoms.

Anal sex can be fun and also pleasurable. But you must be concerned about the pain, hygiene, and STDs that may prove to be a problem in the long run. Knowing about these safety aids is vital in particular when testing the capability and level of stimulation of anal sex all through.

Anal Sex Hygiene:

Before any type of anal sex activity, it is important that you protect yourself and your partner. Ensure you talk with your partner(s) on the best way to ensure your health. Before having the first intercourse of the day, you need to ensure you wash up for hygiene is paramount. The anal enema can be used for this purpose for in is a solution of a surge of distilled clean water. You can find an anal enema easily at any sex toys store easily.

Your first anal sex toy:

Whenever you try the anal sex toy you must be keen on the kind of flexible jelly as some may prove hard to insert so it is better to avoid using such a toy and rather use vibrator sex toys which are not only stimulates sexual feelings but also take the whole sexual pleasure to the next level. So make sure to purchase a vibrator sex toy when you are about to buy your first sex toy.

Using condoms for further safety:

By using condoms, you avoid the risk of getting infected with sexually transmitted diseases which are popularly known as STD’s.

It is also good for monogamous partners for some germs may be transferred from the anus to the penis and cause infections such as Urinary Tract Infection (UTIs).

Also, it is vital to ensure you utilize water-based soaps and condoms made of latex – an oil-based lube will destroy the condom.

It has become really easy to get condoms today as not only medical shops sell them but you can also buy it from any sex toys store as well.

Finally, when your have all the necessary items to have sex, it is time for you first to relax.

Pain will most certainly occur the receiver is tense and clenching their sphincter muscles.

A message is great beforehand, and as things progress one may be willing to stimulate the anal rim first and then slowly penetrate with ample lubricant.

It will be an amazing experience that you will cherish for a long time and do it time and time again.

How To Anal Train (UPDATED)


Anal sex is fast becoming a more regular part of many couple’s sexual lives. Although it isn’t quite normalized–many couples still don’t participate in it–those that are are finding it an extremely interesting part of their sensual encounters. But before jumping into anal intercourse, it’s sometimes a good idea to work into anal penetration. Anal training kits are created specifically to help train the human body to take anal penetration. Therefore, if you’re already an anal pro — or are new to anal — here’s precisely how to use a anal training kit.

What’s Anal Training?

You need one of our anal training kits–they come with three different butplugs in different sizes. This kit would be the absolute best method to start experimenting with anal play since they’re solid (which assists in clipping), smooth on the outside, tapered towards the very top, curved towards the top (additionally for simple insertion), plus they have a security bottom so the plug does not get missing the rectal canal. These plugs should be utilized sequentially to gently extend the rectal opening.

Now you start with on the smallest plug, use a decent amount of lube (be sure that the brand you select works with your plugs.)  Put lube on the plug AND on your anal opening. Have your significant other (or you can do yourself) GENTLY push up the plug into your rectal canal till it kind of gets “sucked” up indoors and the bottom is flush against you around the exterior. You may rock the plug out and in, push steady and slow, or even push a bit in and retract a bit at precisely the exact same moment. The recipient must push OUT (as if you’re having a bowel movement) since the plug has been pushed in. NEVER push it complete on in or push it.

Preparing for Anal Sex

Many people are afraid about the cleanliness of anal sex. What you might have seen in pornography, spontaneous anal intercourse, is largely a dream. Actors and actresses prep for anal scenes, and that prep could involve something as intense not eating the day before and certainly includes anal douching. Douching is secure and simple. You can either get a disposable enema kit or an anal douche. If using an enema kit, replace the fluid with warm tap water, insert and expel. You might want to do this a couple times before the expelled fluid is clear. With that 1 concern off your mind, and I know I have changed enough diapers to want to limit my contact with mood-killing poop, you might find you’re already a great deal more relaxed and excited to get going.

Lube For Anal Play

Break out the lube. Everybody needs lubricant for anal intercourse. While the vagina self-lubricates, the anus doesn’t, making lube an absolute requirement. Never mind that you have noticed some guy spitting on a porn star’s buttocks before ramming it home, for one, she might be pre-lubed using a water-based product and the spit is rehydrating it, for two, she is a sexual athlete and you are likely not and last, the use of prodigious quantities of lube no doubt occurred before the filming started or ended up on the cutting room floor. I really like porn but I would be happier if pornography was prefaced with a warning — trained professionals, please don’t try these feats in your home. Thick, gel such as lubes generate a cushioning effect that makes them perfect for anal play. As you may know people who use desensitizing lubricants for anal play, I do not recommend it. Desensitizing your bottom will not help you unwind and because these products calms the nerves, so you won’t feel pain or distress. And pain is important; it is your body’s natural warning system and lets you know when something is wrong before things go too far awry. By flushing yourself, you risk irritation or even significant damage to all those delicate anal tissues.

How to Have Good Anal Sex

Well, this is actually up to you and your partner. The majority of folks will have vaginal or foreplay sex while the plug is in your ass.It makes the vagina feel a bit “tighter”, but it is incredible pleasurable. Men are also able to feel the plug on their prostate, enhancing the stimulation of the penis and causing “prostate orgasms”.

Slowly work your way from the smallest to the largest plug, maybe even over the course of several months. Don’t over-exert yourself–the anus is fragile and can be overstimulated.  If you think you wish to move up, do this by following the first suggestions — significance, use more lube, proceed slowly, do not push your entire body. You can most certainly go bigger, simply let your spouse lead you.

Be Horny

Be horny. It helps to be really excited, so prepare with plenty of foreplay. Whether you go down on each other, participate in some sensual massage or touching, it’s all good so long as it turns you on. Also, consider stimulating the area surrounding the anus before diving in with fingers, toys or penises. The anus is anxious, you do not want to dive right in or it’ll tighten up like a clam shell with distress and frustration probably ensuing.

Physically Train Your Anus

A lot of men and women do anal training to train their body to take anal intercourse. As soon as you get into the biggest anal plug, as well as your body has adjusted to getting the plug in, you are able to move to anal intercourse. Anal intercourse will be a lot simpler and more agreeable if your body has been stretched somewhat by the rectal plug. To do this you’d find the greatest plug inserted as previously. When the individual accepting the sticks has rested, then you’re able to get rid of the anal plugin, utilize MORE lube, operate on anal penetration.

The rectal canal will remain bloated (opened) to get just a bit of time when the plug was taken away, but it is going to return to its initial size. This means, when the anal plug was removed, add more lube and continue to anal penetration straight away. Here is the very best approach to utilize a training group for anal intercourse.

Consider gloves. Gloves can avoid scratching and discomfort from ragged fingernails and give a silky smooth surface that works great with lube. No oil-based lubes with latex gloves, as oil will degrade the glove. Additionally, gloves make for easy clean up, just take’em off and throw’em. Women should be particularly cautious of using oil based lubes for anal intercourse; they are generally thin and can trickle into the vagina sending rectal germs where it does not belong.

Just say no to ass-to-vaginal sex. Never, ever, ever go from anal intercourse to vaginal without using condoms and shifting them between orifices. In spite of this precaution, washing the thing that came out of your buttocks after removing the condom is very much advisable before inserting said object to a vagina.

Try Butt Plugs

Experiment with butt plugs. Butt plugs are a terrific way to get ready for anal sex. To begin with, since you can either add it yourself or have your spouse insert it. You can try several sizes and shapes and materials until you find your perfect fit. Secondly, you may well realize that you like to wear your butt plug during the day simply because it keeps you in an aroused state. I’ve got my mind set on trying butt plug Pilates but have not braved that one yet. When you remove the plug, which may be done privately or as part of play, your bottom will be more accepting. No, you are not going to get all stretched out; your muscles will have rested a bit and will soon return to their normal state.

Push. Although this might appear counter-intuitive, bearing down relaxes your muscles. Try it. When you press or squeeze, your muscles tighten, when you bear down muscles ease. If you are nearly but not quite there, before giving up, try to push against the thing entering your bottom. Pushing is just another reason that doing a mild anal douche can help you relax, you’re going to make certain nothing unexpected will be looking.


Go slowly. Use your fingers or a tiny anal toy (provided that it’s a flanged base, this can prevent a not so alluring visit to the ER to retrieve a missing toy). Allow it to take so long as it takes to get comfortable and feel confident. If today isn’t the day, fine, you can try again another day.

Experiment with various positions. In seated posture, you can try lowering yourself on the cock and moving at your own pace. If you are in a doggie position, back up on the penis. Feeling in control is just another terrific way to relieve anxiety and unwind.

So if the notion of having something on your butt turns you on, proceed, get your lube, douche and butt plug prepared, get excited, play positions and go at your own pace. Anal sex is very pleasurable for many women and men, it is a definite do not knock it until you’ve tried it action.

Butt Plugs: Everything You Need To Know (and waaay more!)


Butt plugs are one of the coolest and easiest ways to spice up your sex life! Anal sex can be a great pleasure, and add a spice to an otherwise dull relationship. It’s a very common practice, but also one that requires a bit of instruction. In this guide we’re going to get to the bottom of everything you need to enjoy anal play with butt plugs.

Unlike clitoral or penile stimulation, anal stimulation can be a little tricky in the pleasure department. If it’s too fast, everything tightens up. If it’s too dry, cuts and tears are likely. If there’s too much movement, it can truly be a little sickening. Whether you are a male or a female, if you want to feel yourself on the edge of explosion with anal intercourse and are looking to try out sex toys particular to anal stimulation, then look no further than butt plugs. Whether you’re looking for a rimming feeling, or penetration  that will bang your socks off, there is a trustworthy butt plug out there just for you.

As much as we all love to make light of butt play, the fact is that the anus, both superficially, and inside, is an eddy of sensitive nerve endings. There’s a reason that butt related sex toys are so enjoyable: anal stimulation, whether it’s rimming, or prostate massage, can feel really good.

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In this Complete Guide to Butt Plugs, we will cover Everything You Need to Know!  We’ll also let you know about different kinds of Butt plugs that you can choose from.  Lastly, we’ll cover the minutiae of butt plug maintenance and hygiene. If you want to learn everything about butt plugs, clasp up and continue reading!

Butt plugs are one of the most trendy and enjoyable sex toys for anal play. The simple and clever design of a butt plug helps people to enjoy hands-free anal stimulus for long time. Butt plugs are well-liked because they perform a simple task very efficiently – that is, they stay in place.

Why Butt Plugs vs dildos or vibrators?

Butt plugs are naturally different from dildos and vibrators, and more apt to the particulars of anal penetration. They’re kind of a ‘plug and play’ toy. A butt plug is made to stay in—it has a flared base so that it can sit between butt cheeks at ease. Its base sticks out and allows you to play without worrying about losing a toy inside of you.

The butt plug that goes inside is shaped to stimulate your anus with the kind of stimulus you’re looking for. Some butt plugs are stationary, whereas others are equipped with motors and vibrate. For sure, butt plugs can be used for in-and-out movement in the typical manner; they are just less built for that than other penetration-focused toys such as dildos.

How will you feel when it’s in?

A butt plug can stay in its place during other play, if you are penetrating while getting your prostate massaged or enjoying some rimming, or even if you are going alone. The additional stimulation that a butt plug provides will help to maximize your orgasms.

How to Use a Butt Plug?

The best way to use your butt plug may vary with your experience, and with the kind of stimulation you are seeking during play.

First of all, we’ll cover the universal basics, and after that we will discuss how best to use your plug to get the most out of it for different sexual activities.

Let’s Start with The Basics:

Start Slow: One important thing you should keep in mind before use is that the anal canal is nothing like a vaginal canal—it can be a lot more delicate, and less easy to relax. So it’s very important to start slowly and accept your body’s reaction. Make sure you play a little with your butt plug slowly before trying to go all out. Use as much lube as you need, and massage the outside of your anus. After that, dipping in a little when you feel more relaxed. When you can tell that your entire sphincter has relaxed and is ready to go, slowly insert your plug.

Get Comfortable:

A comfortable position can help immensely when inserting a butt plug in order to keep your sphincter relaxed. To learn which positions work best for you, try a few different positions out and observe how your body reacts.

The basic and most common position is on your back with pillows behind you and your legs up bent towards your chest. You can try lowering yourself onto your plug, or try squatting on all fours in a doggy position and insert it slowly from behind. Whatever position helps your butt relax the most, that’s position for you.

Don’t be afraid to experiment—depending on how intense you go, you may also want to experiment with some anal stretches.

We have broken down the most normal reasons for using a butt plug and how to use your plug to get the most out of it. Keep in mind, a stimulated prostate can give you the most excellent orgasm of your life! And there are lots of advantages to a great orgasm!

• Rimming:

There are butt plugs specially designed to stimulate the anus directly through a “rimming”—or vibrating—sensation. These are typically vibrating butt plugs that vibrate particularly where the plug is pointed, just before it flares out. If you desire to stimulate your anus externally, but not internally, a vibrating butt plug may still work for you. Simply lube up your plug and press its vibrating body against your anus from the outside. This can provide many of the pleasant sensations of anal stimulation without the potential for painful penetration.

• Prostate Massage

If you have a prostate, you should definitely excite it. You’ll want a longer butt plug that is specially designed to reach that pleasurable spot. You can tell prostate massage plugs apart from the others because they are generally longer and curved. You may want to have your penis stimulated while getting a prostate massage to increase the fun, or you may wish for focus on the prostate only – everyone is different.

• G-spot Stimulation

The wall that divides the colon from the vaginal shaft is quite thin, and because of this some people discover that butt plugs help to massage their G-spot. Butt plugs can add a new dimension to vaginal stimulation by reaching those tough to reach spots through the back door.

• Preparing for Anal Sex

Some butt plugs are designed to help you prepare yourself for full penetration. If you are using butt plugs to set yourself for full penetration, then remember to go slow. You should buy a set of butt plugs which increase in size. They are specially designed this way for this very reason, and will help you reach the level of relaxation required for penile intercourse.


Different Butt Plugs available:

If you have been around the Internet for a while you’ve likely come across these wonderful tail plugs before. If you are tired of the everyday experience of sex and want to try something different, kinky, naughty and wild, there’s nothing as fun as animal tail plugs. These comes in a lot of varieties that include diverse types of animal: the classic fox, wagging dog tails, fluffy bunny tails, and many more. Put the plugs in and you have a rabbit, fox or cat tail hanging from the back. These plugs are light and fluffy and work great for role-playing. You will need to take special care to clean them properly.

The Jewel Butt Plug is also pleasurable to wear in play. It is very simple to insert as these are incredibly smooth and finishes with a very sharp tip.  There is no need for much lube is needed.  Once in it feels great. It’s so smooth and so glittery it looks unbelievable. It’s the sort of toy I want to leave laying around for people to see.

You are a princess, always indulged and pampered, used to the uppermost quality extravagance goods accessible. If this depict you, then our princess plugs are perfect for your anal practice. These plugs are presented in lots of shapes and sizes, all made to look astounding and superb, like something out of a fairy tale. There are even gold plugs for that additional bit of magnificence, which will not be lost on someone with as demanding and sophisticated taste as a princess!

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Clean Up Process:

After you are done using your butt plug, you’ll need to clean it. Soap and water works if you do not plan to share it, but wiping with a ten percent bleach solution or boiling plugs that don’t have vibrating or motorized parts helps get them even cleaner!

Care and Maintenance of Your Butt Plug:

A butt plug is an intimate toy, and should be treated as such. If you enjoy using your butt plug ensure you get the most out of it by cleaning it between uses. Maintainin good hygiene and high-quality storage practices will not only increase the lifespan of your toy, it will also help prevent infection.

For anybody who is interested in butt play, we hope our Complete Guide has provide you with that little push you needed to grab a butt plug of your very own. We are sure that your new toy will help you to find new and exciting orgasms you could only previously dream of!

What kind of lube should you use with your butt plugs?

If you try to use a butt plug without use lubrication you can anticipate pain and uneasiness, and you may end up with lasting injuries. Friction is the least sexy thing you can bring into an anal play session, so make sure that whenever the butt plug comes out, the lube does too. Once you have a butt plug of an appropriate size and width, you should lubricate the outside of the rectum again, as well as the inside of the plug. The significance of lubrication in anal play cannot be overstated.

What questions do you have? Are you interested in anal play? Have you checked out our tail plug selection? Let us know in the comments!

The Ultimate Guide TO DDLG And Petplay (UPDATED 2018!)

BY AMANDA SOVAGO-ROYAL, blogger and sex educator.

Based on the widespread popularity of the recent box office hit, 50 Shades of Grey, you’ve most likely heard of the erotic act of roleplaying known as BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, and sadomasochism), but few people are aware of the subsets within BDSM.

Two of the most popular yet controversial BDSM preferences are DDlg and Petplay roleplay.

There are many misconceptions about those particular fetishes that are quickly dispelled once you can plainly define what DDlg and Petplay are, isn’t, and how its done right, and we’ve taken the liberty to do just that in this Ultimate Guide to DDlg & Petplay.

Defining DDlg Once And For All

Before we jump into one of the most controversial subsets of BDSM known as  “DDlg”, we must first point out that this type of relationship dynamic involves consenting adults, and does not involve minors, pedophilia, or incest in any way.

DD/lg roleplay is where one person in the relationship serves as the caregiver (dominant) while the other person serves in a childlike (submissive) state. Although the relationship is agreed upon by adults, the stigma surrounding DDlg, unfortunately, remains in mainstream “Vanilla” mindsets simple due to the “lg” acronym representing the title of “little girl.”

Sure, some relationships involve ageplay (acting or treating another as if they were older/younger than their real age, sexually or non-sexually), but we should keep in mind that some DDlg relationships aren’t sexual at all. Nonsexual DDlg dynamics typically involve play centered around activities like reading bedtime stories, coloring, playing with stuffed animals with BDSM aspects like limitations or spankings when needed.

For relationships involving sex, we could easily argue that this form of roleplay is no different than the typical vanilla fantasy of a sex-crazed secretary whom can’t keep her hands off her married hesitant boss.

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After fantasy comparisons are made the follow-up complaint seems to always be that DDlg promotes sexism, stereotyping men and women into gender roles” but that’s wrong.

Both the dominant and submissive roles can be occupied by both men and women, with the possibility of swapping roles back and forth in cases where parties may identify as versatile ( or “switches”) able to play both D/s depending on how they feel at that moment.

You’ll find that this type of connection is ultimately no more taboo than vanilla relationships we hold as golden standard models every day.

In actuality, DDlg dynamics require more love, care, guidance, and discipline than most, so communication between the parties is the second most important rule (following the rule of consenting adults) in the relationship.

Petplay RolePlay For Laymen

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So you’re probably wondering why we’re talking about pets and DDlg in the same article?

The reason for this is because like DDlg, Petplay is often negatively judged and misunderstood by those outside of the BDSM community.

Though this subset of BDSM has the word “pet” in it, both parties actors are consenting human adults engaging in animalistic play.

The “Owner” (the dominant) will interact with their “pet” (the submissive) who takes on the role of a puppy, kitten, fox, or whatever animal the parties desire. Pet play can also be sexual for some, while nonsexual for others with attentive activities like affectionate belly rubs, playtime with chew toys, training tasks, and discipline.

Sexual petplay partnerships should not be confused with “zoophilia,” a fetish in which sexual roleplays where the human being transforms into an altered mind-space into that of an animal (note: zoophilia is not the same as bestiality which involves real animals).

For more expert tips regarding Pet Play check out our Beginner’s Guide To Fun And Safety.

The Differences Between DDlg & Petplay

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DDlg and Petplay similarities have already been highlighted: Consenting adults, Roleplay, and D/s Relationship Dynamics.

The significant differences between two roleplays would be the equipment.

As with anything the type of equipment one chooses to use to indulge in DDlg and Petplay should be based on personal comfortability but there are some BDSM tools that at first glance seem similar but are worn more so in the DDlg scene or Petplay scene individually.

Leash vs. Chain:

As a DDlg or Petplay submissive you’ll most likely adorn a collar at some point, and your Dominant will want to lead you by that collar for various reasons.

What you’ll see in the DDlg is typically a standard small or medium-sized leather leash being used, whereas in the Petplay scene Owners will often lead their pets around with metal chains more reminiscent of those you’d see on an actual animal for a more realistic play experience for both parties.

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Ball Gag vs. Bit Gag:

Ball gags (usually made of rubber or silicone balls held in the mouth, behind the teeth, by a strap) is worn in the DDlg scene during sex or discipline scenarios.

Bit Gags (also made of rubber or silicone horizontal bar, held in the mouth behind the teeth, by a strap) worn during Petplay for many reasons.

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Butt Plug vs. Pet Plug:

Anal plugs can design using rubber, silicone, metal, and even natural materials like wood.

A typical DDlg butt plug is made of metal and adorned with pastel rhinestones molded into cute shapes such as hearts at the exterior end.

Pet plugs will most likely be rubber or silicone with a connected outer extension about the animal it is intended to represent (ex: puppy, kitten, horse, bunny, pigtails, etc.).

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Onesies vs. Bodystocking:

DDlg onesies are a very popular, as well as the typical cutesy wears such as skirts, leg warmers, dresses and anything colorful and youthful.

For Petplay its common for players to wear body stockings, solid colored or animal print, that reflects the animal they wish to be.

Bodystockings also make the player look more streamline/uniform from head to toe similar to an animal as clothes are for humans, not animals.

Petplay Leather Horse PVC Uniform

FAQs About The Scene

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“I’m into DDlg or Petplay specifically, how can I get into that scene?”

Online BDSM chat rooms and forum websites like FetLife is a great way to meet people interested and involved in the BDSM community locally and nationally.

There are other ways to go about getting into the BDSM and subset scenes but online is by far the best way for newbies since its online versus in person with the potential dangers.

By mingling online first you can learn more about the scene, open up more freely and anonymously, and watch how others engage with one another to learn acceptable “Do’s & Dont’s” of the scene without having to experience them yourself firsthand.

Look for specific DDlg and Petplay groups, join, engage, and have fun!

“I’m shy, how can I mingle without being awkward?”

The best icebreakers at scene parties are costumes and gear.

If you show up in really cool (whatever that means for you) gear or costumes you’ll definitely have men and women approach you to compliment your wares and strike up a conversation.

If you’re of legal drinking age, enjoy one or two cocktails to loosen up but don’t go over your limit and risk looking sloppy or drive home drunk.

Definitely browse the attendees list reach out to others attending the event beforehand, even a simple introduction of who you are, and chances are you’ll bump into them at the party and already have an acquaintance to mingle with.

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“How can I have fun and be safe at the same time?”

The same dating and safety rules one has would apply in the BDSM scene.

Before engaging in any act (especially anything requiring physical contact) you’ll want to make sure you give and receive consent to any activity that takes place.

Don’t be a wallflower, have fun, but don’t be pushy about getting others to interact with you otherwise you’ll gain a reputation in the community as being a bully and even be blackballed from private events that can be super fun and sexy!

What kind of gear do you need for DDlg or Petplay?

Typical DDlg gear would be collars, pastel bondage sets, butt plugs, “Daddy” clothing, and even pacifiers. For Petplay you’ll definitely need an animal tail (whichever animal you prefer), masks, and body harnesses.

So, now that you’ve officially been given the 411 on the DDlg & Petplay similarities, differences, gear, and scene etiquette you’re no doubt feeling like a kinkalciious roleplay expert. Great! That’s exactly how Buy Tail Plugs wants you to feel.

Our passion is to provide expert BDSM, Sex Toys, Kink Knowledge, and Roleplay Gear that will give you the confidence you need in order to live your fantasies to the fullest and and transform the into realities!

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7 Best Anal Hooks (Updated 2018!)

Looking for an anal hook? Want your lover to hook your ass kinkily? You’re in the right place! We’ve rounded up the 7 hottest anal hooks of 2018 and we will present them here!

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This is our most popular option, and also the one we generally recommend, because it has a little bit of everything. Comprising a 25cm anal hook, a butt plug, and a vibrator, it all comes in a beautiful chrome color–perfect for the hard steel aesthetic that typically comes with anal hook play. Get yours today!

Not only that, but butt plug is available in 3 different sizes for those with different levels of flexibility or anal training.


There’s something to be said for simplicity. This basic anal hook is completely smooth stainless steel with a perfectly circular ball. It fits players of all sizes, and is 25cm (10″) long. It’s a perfect start for anyone new to the world of anal hookery, or who wants to have a simple, classic option in their collection. And who doesn’t?

Two is always better than one, and that’s as true for anal hooks as anything else. For those slightly more experienced players, or those who are feeling adventurous, you should get this hook with TWO anal balls. It gives you a couple of options for depth–perfect if your dom decides you need to be punished further.

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If two’s better than one, then five HAS to be better than two. This anal hook looks painful, but it certainly could be a pleasurable experience in the right context. Any experienced BDSM player will be able to have a lot of fun with this!

Five Ball Stainless Steel Anal Hook

This one’s a twofer. Get two for the price of one–constrict your sub’s balls while keeping their ass in a vice. For maximum constriction you can’t go pass this ball holder cock ring/anal plug. Yee-ouch!!

Stainless Steel Anal Hook With Cock Ring

For those looking for the pointed top and flared base of a typical butt plug. This is available in three different sizes, which makes it accessible to a wide variety of players. Doms, your sub will appreciate the thoughtfulness of this gesture!

Finally, the piece de resistance. If your sub needs their neck braced while they also have their ass plugged, this is our deluxe option, and one worth consdering if you are highly experience in the BDSM lifestyle. You’ll find that your sub is totally ready for whatever you want to do to them–they can’t really move! That’ll show them for breaking the rules.

Stainless Steel Anal Hook With Neck Brace

9 Hottest Tail Butt Plugs (UPDATED JUNE 2018!)

Are you a beautiful fox? Or a cute kitten? Or a lovely bunny? How about a puppy? Either way, you *definitely* need a tail butt plug.

Everyone needs a cute fluffy tail, whether you’re new to petplay or an experienced player.

Check out this article for the 9 best tails of 2018!

These beautiful, LONG tails are our best-selling tail. They’re 78cm long (30 whole inches), and they’re available in a variety of solid colors.

If you want your tail to drape along the ground like a proud fox, this is the tail for you. They’re 100% artificial fur, so they’re vegan and totally ethical. All our customers have been extremely satisfied, they say they’re extremely fluffy and stay together well.

Those looking for a more medium-length fox tail might be thrilled about this one. It’s popular as well, but it doesn’t have the same drape-on-the-ground length that our giant tail does.

You still get our signature Tail Plugs commitment to quality, as well as some seriously dazzling colors to choose from. Check it out!

Ah, the bunny tail. An elegant classic of the tail family.

For those who like to nom on carrots and hop around like cute little bunnies–if that’s you you might also find our carrot wand particularly useful! We have some great bunny tail colors–it’s easy to try out and see if you have an inner bunny side.

Coming in at number 3, this beautiful, thick fox tail butt plug is for the more sophisticated and elegant foxes out there. It is 40cm long—about 14 inches–and features thick and fluffy that is sure to inspire awe.

The white tip is another characteristic feature. It’s perfect for a fox who knows what they want!

The fashionable eveningwear of tail butt plugs, this blue and black thick plug would pair elegantly with a sexy suit or bondage wear. It has a stunning color to it that almost looks natural.

Blue is meant to be an erogenous color–check out this tail today.

We all know that unicorns have rainbow tails. So obviously, you have to have a rainbow tail butt plug in order to be a good unicorn! Ours come with either silicone or stainless steel plugs (up to you), so everyone can be the unicorn they’ve dreamt of being. Neeeeeeigh!!
It’s traditionally quite difficult to find tails like this–thick and dense tails like an adorable cat. I personally LOVE them. This one comes with a tiny little bow and bell, so that your master will know exactly when you’re coming! That’s helpful. I think they’re really cute and great for good kitties everywhere.

Good ponies and horses everywhere have very specific requirements, which are quite different from the more “typical” fox tail plugs. I say “typical” in quotes, because pony play is JUST as important as fox play (as any pony will tell you…or maybe they’ll just say “Neeeeeeeigh!” instead)

This one has beautiful blonde horse hair, perfect for any pony. Be your master’s little pony tonight! 

Who’s a good boy?? Who’s been a good girl? Puppy play makes SO much sense–it’s very easy to reward lil dogs for good behavior and punish them for bad. Any serious puppy player is going to need a silicone tail, which you can get here. It’s a nice length–not too long, but also long enough that it moves when you wiggle your little puppy butt.

Pet Play Gear and Tail Butt Plugs, Oh My! 13 Must-Have Butt Plugs (UPDATED OCTOBER 2018)

We humans often get bored easily in our daily life. From TV shows to our lovemaking sessions, we always need something new and kinky to spice up our interest. Thankfully, we are living in an era that has plenty of options to heighten the blissful orgasmic experiences. Amongst all the godly things available to us, a few of them are the Tail Butt Plugs and Petplay gear. Let’s take a look at some of the very best sex toys and find reasons why we need them in our lives.

Fox Tail Stainless Steel Butt Plug

Of all the tail Butt Plugs, this is our number one choice. As the name suggests, it is made from stainless steel and gives an amazing sensations in the anal region.  This butt plug comes in various colors that can easily heighten your sexual desire like Black, Pink, Red and Grey. You can simply fit it inside your anal region and couple it up with any sexy outfit while you wait for your partner to come home from work.

The best thing about tail butt plugs is that they are discreet and you can have fix them inside yourself and take them wherever you go to keep things always on the edge. When time comes and with a few correct moves, you will get the sweetest, eye rolling shivering orgasm. Very easy to clean and highly comfortable for prolonged usage. It stimulates the areas which have never received attention; ‘truly’ blissful experience. And yes don’t worry about packaging. It is extremely discreet.

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This cute little T-Shirt is perfect for times when you are feeling too feminine and want to be dominated by a masculine body. The Shirt comes in all sizes and feels tighter against your breasts making them and nipples pop out a bit more. Call your partner in a sexy accent after wearing this shirt and you will instantly have his attention.

Put those fingers in your mouth and take your partner’s name with a slutty feel while wearing this T-Shirt. Your partner will be thrilled to have your submissive attention and he is sure to grab every inch of your luscious meat. Bring extra kinkiness with our tail butt plugs and you both will get off like crazy.

7 Piece Bondage Set

Whether you want to choke, tie up or blindfold your partner, there is nothing that you cannot achieve in your bedroom with the 7 Piece Bondage Set. No matter how pervert you are, these comfortable BDSM pieces in different colors will fulfill every bit of your fantasy.

Choose from three different colors aimed at delivering a professional BDSM experience. The Bondage Set comes in three exotic colors of Pink, black and Purple. Fantasize your favorite man or woman manhandling you like a hungry beast. Exciting?

Pink Fairy Vibrator

This mini wand vibrator can torture (in a pleasurable way of course) the most insensitive clits. Especially if you are menstruating and feeling horny, this super cute and pinky vibrator will give you multiple wild orgasms.

With its humongous 10 inches’ head piece, you can stimulate the innermost parts of your wet dripping vagina. You can, of course, vary the speed allowing you to orgasm like a crazy nymphomaniac.

Flower Rose Stainless Steel Butt Plug

Want to feel like a pampered princess and a saucy fox at the same time? This beautifully flowered butt plug will help you feel like one and enhance your sexual game. Your anal region contains so many pleasurable nerves that this steel plug will stimulate. It can also be used by gays also.

Imagine your partner feeling the inside of your thighs from behind while analing you with this butt plug. Or you can simply slide on his pole with the plug inside your anus while your partner sucks the life out of your tities. You will achieve orgasms that will awake every cell of your being.

Rabbit Tail Stainless Steel Butt Plug

This squeaky butt plug with a stainless steel can be heated or cooled before inserting. Let your partner enjoy the beautiful sight of your ass twitching from the sensations of this beautiful rabbit tail plug.

He can rub your clitoris or squeeze your tits while poking this from behind in rhythmic manner. A perfect moment where you will cum like crazy. This butt plug is non-poisonous and you can even walk with it to the office or super market, we are just giving ideas.

Pink Silicone Anal Training Set

Want to get pounded by a bigger boy? You first need your anus to fit the larger member which can take you to a new level of orgasm.

This Pink silicone anal set is designed for this particular training. Lube up your ass and gently slide in the butt plug starting with the smallest member. Gradually your butt hole will widen up to accommodate the biggest dick.

Once you are used to it, be assure that you will be asking for a lot of anal sex. Designed to train your ass for everything, you can now easily hook up with the thickest of cocks allowing you to feel immense pleasure which rarely few women get just from anal.

Yes Daddy Panties

Wear these panties, not for just comfort but to instantly arouse your partner. Or wait; are you looking to meet that hot guy tonight and just want him inside at the end of the night? Then try the Yes Daddy Panties.

Imagine lip-locking your partner while he takes your lower off. You bend your back and what he sees? He sees a clear invitation, more of like a ‘begging to pound you like a bitch’ and no mortal man can resist such warm invitation.

You will get the pounding of your life and will cum so hard that you may have a hard time walking straight next morning. A genuinely kinkier way for a frolicking night.

Silicone Dog Tail Butt Plug

This Dog Tail Butt plug has a decent swelling head that will tingle your most erogenous anal areas. Made up of flexible rubber, you can slide in and out this tail butt plug with ease.

Rub your anal with the desired speed. Do not worry at all, this rubber texture is smooth while the tail resembles pretty much to that of a Dog. With the slightest of movements of your hips, the tail will wag and will make you feel like a horny bitch lying on all four that just wants to get thrust by a bull.

White Arctic Fox Mask

If you are into pet play, these masks (resembling the foxes of the Arctic) will simply spice up your naughty acts. The fur is extremely soft with a cute little button nose.

The fetishes of making love like the animals can be highly erotic. If you love seeing animals pounding each other, then this Fox mask will make your sexual organs heightened with ecstasy.

You can also use these masks to have webcam sex with other couples. Or you can make a videotape of yourself hiding your identities and let the other people jerk off to you online. The fur is extremely soft and very easy to clean.

Fox Tail Plug

There are so many options for color, tail shape in this range. Do you have an insatiable sexual appetite that needs experimentation? Or are you bored with your dull sex life and just want to enhance the experience with your partner? Whatever the case, these butt plugs imitating a Fox Tail can give you powerful seductive appearance making your partner sexually aroused within minutes.

The foxtail of various shapes can give such heavenly pleasurable feelings that you can probably keep orgasming with it. Even men in heterosexual relationships can use it to enhance their lovemaking sessions.

Yes Daddy Crop Top

These tops cover the half part of your mammary glands. No matter what shape or size your breasts are, this crop top ‘Yes daddy’ will ooze out your sexuality to the upper limits.

Let your partner come back from work and show up wearing these Crop Top Shirts. He will be mouthwatering seeing you in these Crop Tops and will just try to eat out those melons of yours.

Imagine riding on top of your partner with this crop top. As you can maneuver his pole in any way, he will simply be gazing right through those half covered breasts of yours making him stay hard for the session. A must clothing for any couple.

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Pet Play: A Beginner’s Guide To Fun And Safety

Pet Play: A Beginner’s Guide To Fun And Safety

Pet play principles — What’s pet play?

Pet play is a connection between two or more individuals, where one chooses the function of an “Owner”, and another as a “Pet”. It may be anything from easy casual playing, or it may go into more of a severe energetic. This is a type of electricity play found within some clinics of BDSM.

BDSM is a assortment of roleplaying lifestyles and practices, generally sensual in character but not only so, comprising a couple components. These relationships could be both offline and online in character.

Even though a great deal of people can think about both functions to be similar as they both pay the “Submissive” function, there are a number of apparent differences in the type of functions that the submissive will possess. A “Pet” is treated as you’d anticipate a pet to be medicated and act, a more affectionate lively than a Slave, in which the key expectation is “You do as you’re told”, and are usually treated with less esteem, more akin to a item or instrument, than you’d using a pet.

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Choosing a Pet

One way is that the submissive acting upon his or her instincts to which animal they most identify with. If the submissive is faithful and playful perhaps they lean towards the pup. If they like being led around and higher protocol training maybe it would be a pony.

Another common way for the creature to be selected is for the Dominant to select for the submissive. If S/He prefers a puppy into a kitty, the submissive will be molded into a pup.The submissive can also change critters from time to time if their pet play is temporary, even if they just enjoy experimentation or if they don’t identify with one particular creature.

One big reason many D/s couples enter pet play is for the embarrassment and dependency aspect. Restricting a submissive’s motion and vocalizations induce them to be that much more reliant on their Dom. Here are a few ways that Doms can train their pets, and what they both get out of the arrangement.

  • Another is because it’s simply fun. It’s a terrific psychological and emotional discharge to have the ability to come home and let loose the constraints of humankind and what individuals are “supposed to be like.”
  • It might also be described as a “de-stressing” procedure from the rigors of everyday life, particularly if the participants work outside the house.
  • It can assist with submission, as taking away some pieces of the submissive’s humanity can take away their sense of equality.
  • Pet play might also be utilised as punishment. If the submissive misbehaves badly it might be a punishment to be put out from the pig stalls with the pigs for a time period, or whatever animal is available, and made to behave like that creature as the punishment.

The two parcipants, before any play happens, need to have conversation beforehand about soft and hard limits. Be sure to talk about what you want from the connections, expectations for your play, and safewords in the event of any problems happening. All these pre-talks before play permit for the play to stick to the most important BDSM creed:

Safe, Sane, and Consensual

Safe — The participants are expected to maintain the play secure for both parties. This function is obviously more significant for the Dominant from the connection, given they’re normally those in the majority of control. That can be not as a problem for internet play since there’s less danger involved than physical play, but nevertheless are anticipated.

Sane— The two parties are expected to take care of others psychological in addition to physical demands, this will be to stop incidents in which the sub can have a breakdown if play becomes stressful in their mind-set. Aftercare in most play, and in frequent points should in a more duration energetic, ought to be that either side may assess the play, address some issues, and make sure that both parties maintain a wholesome mind-set after play stops.

Consensual— All of play and strategies must be agreed upon. Despite play between consensual non-consent, there’s still a very clear understanding of exactly what is and is not permitted to take place, and that some requirements of a Safeword are preserved and addressed. Both parties must be well educated and be in a position to call off play in ANY stage if Limits are all broken.

A difficult limit is something which under no circumstances ought to be tried by both party. All these would be the “Definitely not likely to occur” category and also the dominant needs to be respectful of these.

A Soft limitation is something at which under most situations is not desirable, but might be tried if the topic is at a mindset prepared to test them, together with additional care anticipated from the dominant to be sure the play does not push too much and outcome in almost any freakouts.

This is where somebody calling a safeword is the most common if something tried becomes too embarrassing.


A safeword is a term, phrase, or sign, which some thing is incorrect for a certain reason, and also the Dominant should cease for their own health. That is more often typical in S&M and B&D, but may be used for almost any play if something isn’t right. The dominant should ALWAYS honor a safeword, and attempt to handle the issue when at all possible, before continuing following the sub has contributed an ok. Safewords is any word, word, gesture, or signal, agreed upon before play begins, which would not naturally develop during play. This usually means that a safeword should not always be “No” “Stop” “Do not”. As those may be utilized to express need for longer, or as a normal response to a aspect to this play.

As this obscure word like “Banana” or “Bathmat” is utilized, so as to be unmistakable throughout play. In cases where speaking is not possible, (For instance if the man or woman has been gagged or, more likely in this circumstance, in trance) Something such as humming a instantly recognisable tune like a national anthem or recognisable jingle is an efficient means to avoid this restriction should that be levied on the topic throughout play.

What Might My Master Make Me Do?

  • Limit movement through bondage.
  • Restrict verbal communication, maybe to only particular words or animal sounds like “woof!”
  • Training exercises for example tricks for dogs, walking leads and leashes or for ponies pulling a cart/plow.
  • Eating and drinking from bowls without using hands and/or silverware.
  • Learning how to use a litter box instead of a bathroom, or even going outside.
  • Begging at the manner of the creature you identify with, like a puppy whining.
  • Not being permitted on furniture without permission.

Safety Tips To Be Mindful For

  • In regards to eating real animal food, although it’s okay for perhaps a brief scene, it’s dangerous to do this on a regular basis. People have different nutritional requirements than animals do, and it’s extremely important to get your nutritional needs met
  • There are a number of ways to simulate animal treats and food such as mashing up meatloaf with ketchup, using stews as well as baking treats from the shapes of bones and such.If you decide to use shock or training collars, please, PLEASE read the directions! On a personal level, I’m not into electrical play, but it’s out there. So please, be cautious and safe.
  • If you set your pup slave to a kennel, please remember they’re quite cramped. You don’t want your puppy slave to be ruined from being in that position for extended amounts of time.
  • When the submissive has had their ability to move and talk restricted it’s incredibly important that some kind of communication is available to them so that they could communicate if something has occurred or gone incorrect, both emotionally and physically.
  • Additionally, in my opinion with a human pet may add some obligation into the Dom because when some of the submissive’s humanity is removed and particularly if their communication is limited, the Dominant must that a lot more conscious of the submissive’s frame of mind.


BDSM may have breeds on all involved, and also what happens later play is just as, or more significant than what occurs throughout. Subs and doms can undergo “Drop” Where following a particularly intense session once the endorphins, adrenaline, and dopamine which has been created in the play, begin to fall, and also the subject (And sometimes the dominant, although this is not as common) can endure psychological and physical pressures throughout the fall till they are in a steady level.

· Infection and decreased energy

· Feelings of guilt, worthlessness, or helplessness

· Loss of interest in hobbies or activities after pleasurable, such as sex

· Persistent aches or pains, headaches, cramps, or digestive Issues That Don’t ease even with therapy


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