The muscles and nerve endings around the anus are highly sensitive, and feel great when stimulated by a finger, sex toy, tongue, or penis.
At first, it is recommended that you should start anal sex without a partner at first to ensure you are comfortable doing it.
For a man, butt plugs feel good against the prostate.
Many men have orgasms just from pressure on the prostate (the P-spot).
For a woman, they can easily stimulate their G-spot indirectly through anal play.
What you need: Butt plug/small dildo/anal beads; a lubricant, a vibrator (optional)
Time Required: About an hour to achieve complete ejaculation.
Prep For Anal
Select a toy
Butt plugs are a good beginner item. But one may also use anal beads or a slim jelly dildo as a beginner item.
Make sure to have lots of lubricant handy (preferably a thicker water-based lube).
Trim your fingernails. You should ensure that your state of hygiene is totally on edge.
One should take a bath initially and then try it out.
Next, do what you do to get yourself in the mood
There are a variety of ways to accomplish that arousal, to get yourself in the mood to masturbate.
Find a position where you’re most comfortable, and where your butt is still accessible. You need to put some lubricants on the fingers and smear around the anus area.
Then you will be required to slowly do some massage. Then concentrate on relaxing the butt muscles. Now, gently insert a lubed fingertip.
You may sense some restriction.
If so, massage the anus and try pushing out as you’re pushing your finger in.
Once you’re in, stop for a moment, and let yourself adjust to this new sensation.
Then you will start the exploration.
Now, let’s try it with a butt plug
Remove your finger, add some lubricant to the plug and insert it slowly.
Again, if you’re having some trouble, massage the anus, breathe deeply and try again.
Do not try to insert the entire toy right away.
Insert a little at a time to allow your butt to adjust to an incoming rather than an outgoing object.
Once inside, continue inserting as long as it feels good
Continue applying lubricant as the slipperier, the better. There is a variety of plug sizes and will fit inside the anus.
You can leave the toy in place and explore other areas, or, stay where you are and try out different variations in movement.
You can turn it, push it, tap on it, if it’s a vibrator, you can increase or decrease the speeds.
Make sure that if the plug you’re using is curved, that the curve points towards your stomach.
This provides added sensation to either the prostate, the p-spot or the g-spot. One may be willing to try to orgasm with the plug in place.
It’s recommended that you remove the plug fairly soon after you come, but do it so gently.
• If you find that you like movement in and out of your anus, try a slim dildo. The jelly dildo will work to start with.
• Use a dildo with a long handle for better grip.
• Plugs or dildos with suction cups are a great hands-free way to penetrate yourself. Stick them to just about any surface and “ta-da” no hands!!
• Also recommended are Anal Beads as the butt muscles contract around each bead as they are inserted.
• Silicone plugs and dildos are easily cleaned with soap and water, and those made of rubber and cyberskin can be used with condoms.
Anal sex can be fun and also pleasurable. But you must be concerned about the pain, hygiene, and STDs that may prove to be a problem in the long run. Knowing about these safety aids is vital in particular when testing the capability and level of stimulation of anal sex all through.
Anal Sex Hygiene:
Before any type of anal sex activity, it is important that you protect yourself and your partner. Ensure you talk with your partner(s) on the best way to ensure your health. Before having the first intercourse of the day, you need to ensure you wash up for hygiene is paramount. The anal enema can be used for this purpose for in is a solution of a surge of distilled clean water. You can find an anal enema easily at any sex toys store easily.
Your first anal sex toy:
Whenever you try the anal sex toy you must be keen on the kind of flexible jelly as some may prove hard to insert so it is better to avoid using such a toy and rather use vibrator sex toys which are not only stimulates sexual feelings but also take the whole sexual pleasure to the next level. So make sure to purchase a vibrator sex toy when you are about to buy your first sex toy.
Using condoms for further safety:
By using condoms, you avoid the risk of getting infected with sexually transmitted diseases which are popularly known as STD’s.
It is also good for monogamous partners for some germs may be transferred from the anus to the penis and cause infections such as Urinary Tract Infection (UTIs).
Also, it is vital to ensure you utilize water-based soaps and condoms made of latex – an oil-based lube will destroy the condom.
It has become really easy to get condoms today as not only medical shops sell them but you can also buy it from any sex toys store as well.
Finally, when your have all the necessary items to have sex, it is time for you first to relax.
Pain will most certainly occur the receiver is tense and clenching their sphincter muscles.
A message is great beforehand, and as things progress one may be willing to stimulate the anal rim first and then slowly penetrate with ample lubricant.
It will be an amazing experience that you will cherish for a long time and do it time and time again.